"'Generation
X' is a term loosely used to denote the post-baby boom generation,
as far as demographers are concerned, it covers people born between
1965 and 1976. That span of years corresponds precisely to a doubling
of the annual American divorce rate, from 2.5 to 5.0 per 1,000
population."
-- From the article, "Can Generation Xers -- many of them children
of divorce-- make their own marriages last?", by Kendall Hamilton
and Pat Wingert, July 20, 1998.
"There
is no sense in loving someone you can never wake up to except
by chance."
-- From "The Passion" by Jeanette Winterson
Cohabiting
is most popular among the 24-35 age group -- 1.6 million couples
in that demographic are "living in sin."
-- Census Bureau, 1998
Cohabiting
couples get it on more than married folks do - unmarried guys
have sexual intercourse an average of 7.4 times per month, whereas
husbands get it 6.8 times per month
-- Linda Waite, Professor of Sociology and of the Social Sciences
at the University of Chicago.
Married
couples rated far higher than others when asked if their sex is
emotionally and physically satisfying
-- Linda Waite, Professor of Sociology and of the Social Sciences
at the University of Chicago.
"This
girl was different. This girl made me trust myself man. I was
walking around and I was feeling satisfied. Can you imagine that?"
-- Lloyd Dobler in "Say Anything".
"Today's
young adults are less involved in sexual activity. The authors
of Sex in America (1994) found that the youngest adults report
levels of sexual intercourse that are closer to people aged 50
to 59 than to those in their 30s. While that may be due in large
part to their being single rather than married, young adults also
report lower rates of masturbation."
-- From "The Generation X Difference" by Nicholas Zill and John
Robinson, April 1995, American Demographics
"We
fear passion and laugh at too much love and those who love too
much."
-- From "The Passion", by Jeanette Winterson.
"..Gen
Xers haven't turned their backs on tradition. In many respects
they're more conservative than their parents, more likely to value
the stability that marriage can provide, and they are, they say,
determined to succeed where their parents have failed."
-- From the article "Can Generation Xers -- many of them children
of divorce-- make their own marriages last?", by Kendall Hamilton
and Pat Wingert, July 20, 1998.
"Love
is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it
flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels
come. "
- Matt Groening
Gen
Xers are the demographic least likely to say that divorce is the
right answer in rocky relationships
-- From a 1994 study from University of Chicago's National
Opinion Research Center.
In
a sample of 1,479 Canadians aged 25-35, love and companionship,
not economics or sex, were chosen as the primary reasons to get
married, according to 45% of men and 44% of women
-- Sun Media 1998 national survey on sex and relationships.
"The
Cult Of Aloneness: The need for autonomy at all costs, usually
at the expense of long-term relationships. Often brought about
by overly high expectations of others."
-- "Generation X : Tales for an Accelerated Culture", by
Douglas Coupland, p.69.